Thanks everyone.

All good points.

I just don't know what to do. Very mixed feelings about it all.

Diane, yes my sons are going. But....will going stress them out? Maybe it would be best if I didn't go.

???

No Andrew, you're not off base.

I appreciate all of the input. I just don't know...

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13