I searched this guy on LinkedIn and it says he is working for the f***** city where I live
Did you get a name? If so that is all you need.
Listen,
You need to be in complete control of yourself. You need to have a plan and stick to the plan. You can not get emotional. If you believe you will be emotional, then you need to focus on your detachment.
This is all about you and your personal growth.
You have many ways to deal with this. Each of us will try to put in words things that we believe work.
AllenA PuppyDogTails, Coach, Gucci RobX are the wise oldtimers. Each has a different approach to busting. Figure out each of the approaches and determine which one you believe will be the most effective. Some of the approaches are not recommended by MWD. Understand why and then decide.
There is also a link to a recap of my sitch with all the books I read. I have them listed in recommended reading order. Buy a few.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
