Si13 You think someone working for the city? Albeit a Mayor or a Government worker has the time or inclination to bother whether someone looked up their public profile? If the OM ever realizes it? He won't realize it until months later. Also... What makes you think OM would say anything to WW? I know you probably don't want to hear this... But if this OM really is interested in your WW, then I can see you being competition. But if WW is just a pump and dump to OM. He doesn't care about the competition. OM is your competition, and to tell you the truth? He has no morals, and neither does your WW, so why the hell would you want to compete with that?
My WAW may be in an A or EA for all I know, or she may not be. One thing is for certain... Right now she's going through a soft MLC or MLT (Mid Life Transition) I've had 4 GF's before my wife, and had another "really good girl" turn on me, leave me and marry another from across the country. It hurts. I know you want throw the SOB in the dumpster, and either save the W from herself because you love her, or want to send them through the wood chipper...lol..
I can tell you that some affairs play out into happiness seeing others relationships, and others fail because of limmerace.... That's just life... You have to live with yourself first, your decisions, your self esteem, and self respect, before your WW's.
Ever see those movies where the emotionally mature W catches the H cheating, and either just throws his a$$ out, or calmly just goes about life in her own direction, absence of her H and gets stronger? Eat Love Pray or Under the Tuscan Sun? Who really wins when they move on? Self Respect. Live with and for yourself first. Im not saying it doesn't hurt. It hurts every time. It makes you sick every time. But the faster you take your focus off it, the faster you heal and get healthy.healthy
Sorry if I'm being straightforward tonight, had a few scotches. ;-)
