Holy cow! It's Tad...

[tadpole1025]

Thank you Diane. It is so hard knowing what to do. I do NOT want to go and lose my cool. I doubt that I will, but there is always that possibility. I just can't go and see her with OM. To me, it's like shoving it in my face.

My dad didn't remain friends with my mom after she ran off with another man. XW's mom didn't remain friends with XW's dad after he ran off with another woman. But....I feel like I am expected to. It's not going to happen.

Also, OM has 2 exes. I doubt they go to functions too.

I will talk with S24 some more. If he wants to invite OM, that's fine, I just won't go.

I sometimes think I should disappear and head for the hills...