I believe that is sound advice. Although it sounds a bit NG right now. Right now I am still angry. I believe her blow up was a manipulative attempt to control and that is relationship abuse. She chose to skip any transparency plan to restore trust. She reaps what she sows. And she has not been patient.
As far as I know, she couldn't care less if my mind wanders. To assume so would be mind reading.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
