Thanks neffer. I'm not sure where there was mind reading. Suspicion perhaps and IMO that's involuntary.
Most of the time when I am forced to mind read it is because honest communication is not an option. When someone that you care about leaves all interpretation to your imagination you are left with mind reading.
When someone has justified their action based on your behavior you never really believe that they are beyond those actions again. No matter how much you try to get over it on your own.
After the last post, I sent a scathing series of text messages. I know bad RR. I was still mad. I told her that I was going to take her approach of: Not trying and blaming everything on the other person. I also asked why she could always fall back on blaming my past actions, yet expect me to forget her past transgressions.
Other than this latest blow up things have been rather smooth. A man can only handle this abuse for so long.
Last edited by RR17; 04/26/1909:50 PM.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
