I have seen the 37 rules post......is there a thread for rules for R in case i am missing an important piece of my puzzle and overthinking everything?

Where I am at right now is not coming from a place of pain, but clarity in thinking. However, I dont like leaving things broken (im a fixer by nature: home, cars, machines, etc. Relationships are one that always puzzled me). I always treat my girlfriends with utmost respect and caring, but I always seem to end up in the nice guy role and end up getting [censored] on. Lately, I have been standing up for myself and not letting people get away with nothing whether it be in MR (or whatever you want to call it) work, or sports. I am holding myself to a higher standard than at any other point in my life and I gotta say it feels incredible.