Y'all are right. When she was having the affair I was pretty heavily sedated on anti-anxiety.
I will just confirm and then let that all go. It doesn't matter at this point and I need to stand on my own 2 feet. I am getting my ducks in a row, not believing what she says or does.
I appreciate the feedback SO much.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"