On IC for myself I have not. I am part of the beyond affairs network and attending meetings, as well as the healing from affairs groups. I have also had plenty of time to think of what I want from myself and any future relationship (with Spouse or not), and I dont honestly see my wife getting anywhere near that point....ever. She is content with just having a job, never setting goals (still) and just living day by day, and watching mindless drivel on TV in her free time instead of spending it reflecting on everything (plus no apology as of yet).
