IC I have not, we are in MC but she never shares anything with the counselor. We were able to figure out through myself, a mutual BF, and her IC (court ordered) that this is also a MLC thanks to statements such as "im lost and dont know who I am anymore" and "I just dont know where I wanna go in life". The fact that she told me she views me like she does her 2 BF is what killed any attraction I had toward her.
Also, during our marriage counseling (i had already figured this part out) she thinks that the loving feelings she lost could be found with someone else. I asked her to describe the feeling in MC, and what she described was Limerance/infatuation. She never seen what real love looks like even from being very young.
