Originally Posted by si13
Thanks for the feedback guys. I really appreciate it.

I need some help from a MASTER INVESTIGATOR.

I suspect my wife has reached out to her AP from last year. I saw an odd number called over the weekend from her phone records. It only happens 5 times over the course of 2 days BUT they only last 1 minute which make me think they have connected through some other calling app.

When I was able to get ahold of her phone this morning before I left for work, the calls were not listed in the log. Not sure if the phone would dial itself (right) or if she erased them. The last time they were communicating they had made up undercover FB pages to call by messenger that way. She hasn't been overly secretive with her phone - I was able to look at it this morning.

Anyone who is a brilliant detective. What other things should I be looking for?


Google the number. You can usually do a reverse address lookup (by phone number) and get the name and address of the person who's listed under said number. I think I paid $1-$2 and then immediately cancelled the monthly subscription they make you sign up for. There were numerous providers for this information if I remember correctly. It took me about 3 minutes to find the name on the phone number who my exWW was contacting. I was 99.9% sure who's number it was so I did it for 100% confirmation. My opinion is the internet has probably caused cheating/As to increase tenfold in the past 20 years. It's just too easy to contact/communicate with people in this day and age and the ease at which it can happen with the numerous avenues of doing so without it being so blatantly out in the open makes it so much easier for these people to fall into "the trap." Those aren't excuses for waywards at all, just reality and possibly human nature to some extent.

On the flip side, the internet, and technology in general, also provides us with many ways in which to investigate and uncover the truth, too. Hell, I was able to track my exWW's vehicle with the maker's app to determine it's location and went as far as looking back through my security camera footage to pinpoint and uncover a "meetup" she had with the AP. She thought she was being sneaky by meeting him a block away from my house one time when I was gone. Told me she was going to X. The security camera, when I was able to zoom in, clearly showed her turning the exact opposite direction of where she was "suppose" to be going! :-)


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19