So there's this. W has a business trip planned for the same city my daughter attends college. She has a favorite client there and upon hearing of this I can't help but wonder if there is more to it. W refused to a transparency plan after being caught in EA years ago. Says she felt it would send the wrong message that all was Okay in other parts of the MR. While she did tell me, she hasn't brought it up much and seeing that I had committed to drive D16 to school next week I was reminded that the trip was coming up. I asked W while making coffee this morning when she was returning. W said Sunday. Against best DB standards I remarked, "Do you have a friend up there?" Not in a condemning way, but more off the cuff. Well, W gets immediately mad. Suddenly she is dismissive and in a hurry and I am at fault etc.. I mean how dare I have a suspicious bone, after all?
Well, I've never seen W get ready so fast and head into work. I'm so tired of this rude self-righteous and dismissive behavior. GAL and focusing on other things can't keep one that has been screwed in the past from wondering if W is once again justifying some inappropriate R with something I did in the past. You see she wants me to forget the past and never bring it up again, while reserving the right to justify her actions with something I may have done in the past. Seems about right.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
