I just got caught up on your sitch. Very interesting.
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My BIL says from what he's heard about my sitch was that my W wasn't cheating on me in the sense I was thinking but could have been going to lunch with a male coworker.
My inlaws said this too, about a year ago, after I learned that my W stayed over at OM's. FIL immediately said "maybe they didn't sleep together, we don't know that". It was so reactionary and visceral. He couldn't believe what he was hearing, didn't want to believe that his goody 2 shoes daughter was having an affair. Family puts on the rose colored glasses for other family.
I think you are making serious progress on yourself and on your W. But no one knows what will happen. Don't go too fast, but don't be afraid to be true to yourself. These DB boards can become an echo chamber at times. Be you.
Your son sounds like an awesome little dude btw.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
