Originally Posted by CSL
There is OW. She is also married.
Everything is counter intuitive.


Here is a link to quotes I have collected over the past 10 years. Read them all for better understanding of things that work:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2831362



Boundaries work. They may not get your H to stop his A, but they let him know what you will do if he doesn't.

This is the short version of what type of boundary needs to be set:
W"H, this is not working for me. End all contact with OW starting right now or I will file for D"



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712