Si,

you should read my threads. Click my name and hit show forum posts.

You also remind of a friend of mine on here, read his threads: [url=http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&id=40184][/url]
He never let go of her for more than a day or two, never stopped pursuing and had a very long separation like yours.

Detaching and doing your own thing is a great start. But you need to jump off the teeter totter with her. If she is ever ready to commit, you have to slow play it. She will show you how serious she is over the course of time and try to show you she is serious. This was one of my mistakes.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.