Wow. I got a nice set of texts from XW. It all started when she texted me that D8 could go her parents cottage in the summer with D8s cousin for a week. A week which is my week with the kids. I replied that I would talk to D8 about it. Right after I had a talk with D8, XW texts me about me being so emotional about it. I replied that don't I have a right to talkto D8 about this. She then replied Of course, I just get a feeling that you don't f-ing trust anything I f-ing say. It p**ses me off. When did you f-ing become like this? Which I replied that I wanted to make sure that D8 understands that if she decides to go, it neans that we wouldn't be seei g for three weeks. That's all.
And then h*** broke loose. She started ranting about how she is afraid of me, I've become cold, how I use kids to hurt her. That point I reminded her that she threatened to take the kids away from me and she threatened to abandon our kids.
Well apparently she didn't threaten anything. I made her do it by not splitting the kids custody.

Is this just reaction to the D finally becoming to an absolute end or is this still your basic WW. Or are they the same?

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.