J9,

For me cosmetic surgery is a red flag. I like women as natural as I can get them. I think if you want to improve yourself then you should put in the work. No short cuts or cheat codes. Eat right, sleep right, exercise, dress nice, take care of yourself mentally, physically and spiritually. If this is potentially insecurity and/or a fear of ageing then those red flags or at least yellow flags should make you situation aware. I mean Vaginoplasty? Why? Just because you can? I get that everyone especially as they get older are bound to carry baggage, but if anything you should keep the pace slow. Just from what you have posted in the past it sounds like she may be the one to try and push the pace. From what you describe she sounds pretty great, just keep your head on a swivel.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19