I am glad you returned to post an update. I am very relieved/happy that you fired your lawyer and got another one. He may be the one to get your h out of the house in the very near future. He sounds like he is a man who will do whatever it takes to protect his client's well being.
I am so sorry to read that your son has regressed. Hopefully, your situation will turn a corner and your son can recover the ground he has lost due to the stress/tension of what is happening in your home.
The unusual bond that your h has w/your daughter is a bit strange, but they do tend to "lock on" to one child and treat them as best buds. His comment to her worries me just a wee bit. Hopefully it was his way of saying that he loves his daughter and nothing more.
I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and try to remain positive.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
