A Real Mess

[LB55]

In my mind you have a few choices. You can file for divorce. You can not file for divorce. Either way you can continue to DB.

You can’t control her choices. If she wants to get divorced, she will file. Let her do the work.

Giving her a deadline to file for divorce will not likely work out well. It will just be viewed as more controlling behavior, and rightfully so.

You can set a deadline for yourself if you want, a time in which you are going to move forward by filing for divorce, but not a deadline for her to make a choice or take action.

Control what you can control brother. You, your actions, your thoughts, your emotions, those are things you can control.