He talked about taking out $ from retirement to find a place if he had to (I will not let that happen). I did not respond. He said that we have to figure out what we are going to do. I gave a simple ok response and walked away. He was clearly annoyed with my lack of responses and that I did not engage in the conversation. He is storming around the house a bit.
You got his attention. That is often an outcome of DBing. WAHs are especially upset about losing control over their LBWs. While I see that with WAWs too, WAHs often react very much like this. Upset, pouty, storming around. Men can be big kids when they do not get their way. You are doing the right thing. He needs to know you can and will move on.
On the retirement savings thing, if it comes to that, let him. But only up to 50% of the savings and then document it. If you two were to D, those savings would get split down the middle anyway. So if he pushes on it just make sure your half is protected.
Last edited by Steve85; 04/24/1905:45 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
