We have a big saying around here. ACTIONS not words. She’s definitely not working on it and you can’t reconnect while she is opening up to another man.
If she wants space give her space! Give her more space then she will ever imagine. Right now the other dude is meeting her emotional needs while you are doing all the husbandly duties minus the sex. Not a good place to right now. How can we change the dynamics?
Are you currently in super husband mode and doing all the chores, cleaning shopping? If so this needs to stop.
This chump at work I assume is married with children?
Thanks - you are right. For all I know now she is struggling to wring herself from it, but I'm not going to ask.
He's married without children but from what I gather is planning on children.
I've backed off from being super husband and am basically out of the house doing something I want to do or with people I want to be with most of the time now. She's definitely getting loads more space.
May: discover PA April: MC pending IC, back in MBR, discover EA March: different bedrooms, IC Jan 19: ILYBINILWY
