Oh, and in my W's first EA in 2005, I knew something was going on but I didn't know what. After finding DBing I started to 180 on my bad behaviors. She actually resented that. She told her AP and some friends she confided in "I am finally happy and NOW he is trying!" But this is why you focus on YOU for DBing. Do not DB trying to change or control her with it. It will backfire everytime.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
