I understand that the birthday party probably didn't NEED to be at my house with her, but it was already set up previously we both agreed (I liked it for the kids, not her).
I think it is good to do birthday parties for the kids together. It shows the kids that you can still be together in the same room and no be uncomfortable. That will make them more comfortable with the arrangement.
Agree 100%. However, P_Jam my concern was over your approach to this. Anytime you have an urge to push for something like the joint birthday party, ask yourself "is this pressure and/or pursuit? Is this a hill worth dying on? Or should I proceed according to her wishes and not make an issue of it this time?"
Of course this is all a moot point, because if you hadn't made the mistake of the text you wouldn't have had to try to save the party.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
