Moving on to the bright side Part 25

[AndrewP]

She told me last night I could spend the night at her place but I needed to leave before her son woke up at 6:05. She has him on a tight schedule. I declined as my house is only 2.5 miles away and I sleep much better in my own bed. Nothing against her but I like my sleep. She did send me home with some cupcakes and her cupcakes are really good.

You may want to reconsider this the next time IMO. She was offering you a gift of comfort and time and you chose door #2 and cupcakes??? :P

Still learning and getting used to each other. I am realizing that she might be a little insecure as when we were engaging in activities last night she asked me if I liked what I saw. Not a huge issue just an observation. Maybe I dont compliment her enough.

I don't think it's an issue of being complemented enough - just everyday normal insecurity. I personally think that a divorce is for many people a rejection of who the other person is in all ways. And since her marriage was low sex, it's easy to blame yourself for not being attractive enough. I certainly have struggled with this and still do. Oddly, other than the first time we were together, B shows no issues in this way - but she while beautiful in my eyes is no classic beauty. She's middle aged with sags, bonus curves, and some very big scars. I think her biggest concern was that she shaves "everywhere" and once when it came up previously in conversation I'd mentioned that I thought it odd that some guys prefer that. Since it's her choice I just accept it although I was certainly startled. The last time she was over, I had to get up in the middle of the night and turn her bedside light off after she fell asleep as she liked having it on while we were busy. Very different from my ex where everything had to be dark and covered up except the - excuse the pun - bare minimum. Certainly increased my fun level to engage sight as well as the other senses.