Dealing with a complex MLC and/or Wayward Wife #2

[P_Jam]

Thanks Yail. I too agree. I'm really not trying to argue that my talk was really that good. Only that the circumstances that caused it to happen felt unavoidable to me. It also feels good when I feel like I'm making SOME connection with her. There really was no arguing. Just both of us stating our side and generally both of us validated each other (me more than her of course).. I know.. she's just lying manipulating and this is exactly why I'm getting the 2x4's. I'll just say - I don't think the talk was good enough to be excited for another one. Just that it only set me back personally a little. As it draws me back into her - but I don't really believe it hurt my sitch at all right now. I think it helped as is saved the opportunity for us to continue to be able to be in the same room together as the kids not only for this birthday but moving forward - as she was about to completely pull all of that away. I will not give her this power again by attacking her as I did.