Thx, not sure if I like the thought of affair still going on, but absolutely about being patient. I plan to be. She has done a lot of damage with her actions and words. Reading post about not believing what they say helps. I know she is battling some sort of demon but she won't talk to me about it. Last relationship talk 2 weeks ago she told me she was transitioning and that this new persona doesn't see me in their life. It's crazy to hear her say this with our 3 children in other room.
