Wow lots of mistakes right out of the gate. She’s manipulating you. You don’t work on a relationship by moving out and sleeping with OM. So your IC is encouraging you to pursue a woman who is rejecting you? Your IC is watching to many rom com movies. That BS doesn’t work in real life.
You missed opportunities to validate and called her pathetic. Pretty sure that’s not going to attract her back.
This is going to take a really long time. You can’t pretend to move on. Trust me they know.
