I'm pretty damn squimish about a vasectomy, and just don't think it's worth it if we're only having sex once a month or something.
What if you go and get one (MAN UP!) and she thinks....hmmm, he is serious about this. And it reignites her sex drive? And once a month turns into once a week?
Oh, and I would have killed for once a month for years in my marriage.
guess i had a good one, no less then 2-3 times a week for 17 years
for 17 years