I have withdrawn again. Two steps forward, one step back. This lovingly detached is hard.
FS, it is hard, for sure. I'm sure that it is doubly so when dealing with a stressful situation like the health of your FIL. You taking care of yourself and your kids is the right way to go. The vacation plans sound amazing. Focus on yourself and on them and you can't go wrong.
hugs,
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019