lost8, remember, detachment (I prefer self differentiation) is an important part of a healthy relationship. Codependency never works. Eventually one person or the other starts to become more independent and the other person can't handle it.
So keep working on that. Never stop having a life. DB to some level all the time!
- Self differentiation - Have a life - Cement your 180s! - Weekly date night (must)
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Thanks guys, that's why I reach out for the inspiration. I feel like once I made it to rope drop and was prepared to move on and was content, there was almost relief that I had worked to get to that point and proved to myself that I had finally done it.
Now it is hard to work back to the point where I want to grab that rope again.
And like you Steve I am approaching my BD date 5/10 and am feeling some flashback feelings. Doing my best to stay strong and remain a confident husband.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
