Ballast,

That is a wonderful update to read. Despite having to deal with the divorce process (not easy under any circumstances) you have your priorities straight and your attention focused on the future. Congratulations on the the positive place you are in with your new lady friend. Keep doing the work there.

I also relate to you in terms of getting on here and supporting others in their sitches. It is easy to get complacent in good moments, and not want to be reminded of things during bad moments. However, this site has been so helpful to me and I feel the need to pay it forward as well.

Best of luck!


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019