Thanks for the feedback Alison that has brightened my day
Great news on arranging meeting with your friend and getting those two pieces of work scheduled.
My OPINION on how to deal with mil , is to use MWD’s act as if , be happy, positive and friendly. One additional reason for this is that I expect that H has most likely not told her anything substantive , I expect she will ask how you are doing, kids , Easter break etc . I would answer to any questions that I didn’t want to get involved with her on is “ I don’t know how I feel about that” and then kindly explain that I have lots to do and hope she doesn’t mind .
I would get some more opinions on this as I am no expert in any of this and when I am in a stressful relationship situation I go on autopilot and myself not do the optimal thing. TBH I expect you will do much better than I could anyway .
Regardless I hope you have a great day , keep up the good work and keep moving.
