W and I had a conversation over some of what we discussed at mediation last week.
She still holds fast to the fact that I’m a flight risk......before she signs anything for the court rescinding that language, what she wants from me is: 1.) off of our current lease (more on that), 2.) a school contract / agreement for me for next year, 3.) she wants me to answer questions with ‘yes’ or ‘no’ whenever she wants those answers.
Apparently she will contact the leasing company tomorrow to ask about getting off of our current lease. I will be talking about some of the mediation points with L tomorrow; this will also be a talking point, too. I don’t think it will be as simple as her asking to get off of the lease; at first she asked me if I would contact the leasing company (I said nothing in response to that).
W asked me that if there is paperwork I need to sign to get her off of the lease, will I sign it? Me: We’ll see.
W also told me “this move is happening” on May 2nd—she plans on telling OS on Wednesday, and I told her I want to be there when she tells him.
Man, I’m going to hate that conversation.
Her dad is over this week (yeah W and I basically had this conversation right in front of him), and he and I took OS to the park earlier this afternoon. I held OS’ hand for most of the walk there; towards the end of our time at the park, he wanted to go someplace, and he just said to me ‘Will you follow me, Dada?,’ and I melted inside—how could I say no to that? So I went with him. I’m positively sick about missing time with YS—God, I’m gonna hate that. I love that little guy so much, too.
Will be talking with L on Tuesday morning about mediation points, plus talking about lease.
Any suggestions / advice for how to handle the conversation with OS? I’ve seen some stuff before, but I would appreciate a refresher.
As much as my heart breaks for the boys, and I’m also sure that this will be hard financially, I am also looking forward to being rid of her crazy. I know—I’ve seen the post about the view from the WAS perspective, and I know I could have been a better spouse / husband at times, but the last 3.5 months of the drama, the various threats by her, the slandering of my character to my face and in court documents, her calling me ‘deceptive’ repeatedly....I’m kinda done with her.
