Well there is definitely no hurry for any of it. I felt her crank up the intensity last night though so I think that makes me feel a little pressure but will just stick with the 3 H's.
I agree with the monogamous LTP. I don't know that I need to necessarily be married again but I do think about my daughters and them seeing me in a healthy R as they grow up. I know that doesn't mean that I need to get married but just the idea that they have a feeling of a family with a mom and dad since they won't get that from me and their mom.
I don't know if I articulated the properly or not so hopefully you get what I was trying to say.