You are responsible for your own happiness. Do not give her that power.

Stay focused on the present. Do not dwell on the past. Do not fear the future. Do things you enjoy.

Wake up, take several deep breaths and enjoy how good each one feels. Happily make the bed. One simple goal accomplished. Enjoy that. Get in the shower. Enjoy all the feelings. The warm water, the good smell.....Keep enjoying everything all day long. Enjoy completing tasks that get you closer to your goals.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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