So it's been 9 1/2 weeks since my WW contacted me last. I still haven't received any legal letters from her. Last time she messaged me, it was looking for my solicitor's address and contact details, also where to send that information. Absolutely nothing since. All I know is she has left Ireland a few months ago to return to Germany, most likely living with her AP now.
Its mind boggling to think this A is going on since last June, Dday was last August, yet she still hasn't sent me any legal letters, considering she wanted a Divorce since late Sept. She ran away from all the problems she caused and doesn't want to face up to what she did. Maybe it's an avoidance of what she did and it's easier to be around AP, who will feed her ego.
I believe my wife is either really good at compartmentalizing everything, or else she has some serious issues and emotional immaturity. Is she vacillating and still can't make her mind up about pulling that trigger? I have no idea. I did make it clear to her in my last message if it's anything legal, to contact my solicitor anything else she can email me. She hasn't
My birthday will be coming up in a few weeks, I feel it's nearing now there 1 year anniversary.
What a year.
We are still legally married, yet we haven't spoken or seen each other in person since last September.
I have come so far in the last few months and been going out with my friends a lot more. They're very caring and understanding and all have said I'm looking my best in years, also they said it's great to see old Manta is back. That meant a lot to me.
I'm also getting female attention which is nice, alas my heart isn't ready yet for a new relationship yet, but it's good to know that I'm seen as an attractive man again and someone other women desire. My situation isn't as complicated as others here, but it's a very telling story of someone being cruelly cheated on, then afterward dealing with an Ice cold unremorseful WW who ran away from all the problems she caused.
I have a lot going on for me in my life, but this has left a very deep scar, that is still numb and raw. You feel very emasculated as a husband and dehumanized to a point where you feel was I worth anything at all to you, that you treated me this coldly/
I'm doing good guys and I will take action when the time comes. Right now I'm busy living and learning to love myself again. Happiness starts within.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
