She is going to have to hit rock bottom for you to reconnect.
What does rock bottom look like? I’m sure if I filed that could accelerate her reaching that point, although it may be met with a different response than if she reaches rock bottom on her own.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20