Thanks so much for confirming that Steve. My counselor agrees to...I shouldn't have to move out. The downside is that she'll see me as controlling, but I'm not going to let her call all the shots NOR to I want to leave my house or kids. This is her decision not to work.

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"