Not sure why she didn't bring her BF or maybe he has something to do with his own family. I didn't ask, none of my business so I just enjoyed my girls and our mutual family friends. I didn't feel an ounce of anything for my xw although she still had a couple slips of the tongue. Our friends need helping moving and they asked me if I could help them on Thursday. I told them I couldn't due to my oldest's soccer game. The xw looked at me and started to make a comment about me skipping the game to help them. Then our friend jumped in and told my x wife that cord has been cut, you no longer have a say. The X just made a face.
Hung out and hooked up with the dr. last night for a couple of hours after her son went to bed. She told me she wished it was Saturday night because she didn't want to let me go. No new developments. Our schedules are aligned this weekend with no kids so we will have ample time to spend with each other.
I think she is starting to catch feelings and I guess in some respects I am as well. I think I am starting to see now as you get older that love is more of a choice. I think when I was younger it was more of an emotion and you rode that emotion into something more or when the emotions faded you made the choice. IDK with this it just feels like there is no rush, no pressure, in some respects it seems very relaxed. I get the feeling that she is not going any where just by her actions and comments she makes.
I think for me I am still getting there but I guess that is to be expected after only 3 months and being blindsided by a D.
Now love just seems like more of a choice. I enjoy the Dr.s company, we have lots of sex, our lifestyles are the same with young kids, and we share similiar beliefs but I don't need her. I don't want her money, have no problems signing a pre-nup if it ever came to that but I can see how we would be a compliment to each other's lives. At this age is that most important?
