Imp. Point - Wife moving to a new apartment on Wednesday.
Wife's parents called me that they are coming on Wednesday for 3-4 months. Should I ask them to hold on or ask them to come.
Point is that my wife does not have a great relationship with her parents, but they told me that they are coming to put some sense in her. Actually she used to talk to them almost everyday before the BD, but has resentment against them because of childhood neglect etc..She has vilified them as well for her situation in life and told her parents also that they were not good parents and they are also responsible for her low self esteem...Effects of AFFAIR
If they come, they will be staying with her in her apartment. Them being here would mean her plans to stay at OMs place will be shattered as she will not have possibility of staying out at nights becuase of her parents being here. Also, I think them being here would mean she may get emotional support (though they stand for our marriage) and help with our daughter as well.So, it may not make her feel the impact of being separated and handling the kid by her own for half a week. (According to her they are not aware of the affair, but in actual they are)
Also, how can i tell her that she should not expose our D to OM as she is too young to be confused about having another man in her life apart from her father. What boundary can I set other than taking legal action?
What do you guys think is the best thing to happen here.
Would appreciate quick reply as they are booking the tickets and they have to travel from another country.
Sorry for short notice, but please help me with this.
Another question, how should I tell my wife that she should start sharing the daycare expenses and education saving expenses for my daughter? She is currently out of job and has told me to pay those till she gets a job and she will pay me back her share. So, do I wait for her to get a job or should I tell her to pay those expenses when she moves out on Wednesday (paying is not an issue as it doesn't dent my savings or earnings), but I don't want to look vindictive or punishing her as she is moving out. If I have to say that she should start paying without being mean, what should I be saying exactly.
