It is fascinating, when we can step back and look at it, isn’t it?
We’ve all had something similar. How many times have you replayed bomb drop in your head? A pretty significant and traumatic event in your life. We replay it, over and over, turning it around and around, until we come to terms with it, and finally accept what it is. Realize our part, and more importantly, realize what parts are not ours.
This is where a MLCer is at. Having a deep trauma from their past looming in front of them. They can’t face it, but it is there nonetheless. Their minds and emotions are forced back, unable not to relive that event(s). Unable to handle the pain, they run!
The LBS does grows from this, from our event, and any past event(s) this stirs up. Some do enter MLC themselves, BD is a big trigger, and depending on what is hidden and unknown within them, and how well their coping skills are, will affect their path. Most, however, transition relatively well; becoming better people.
The MLCer’s damage is such that a full blown crisis happens; and all h@ll break loose in their lives. Their poor minds are trapped in a past they do not want to visit.
If one can accept and understand this; one can chose and walk a compassionate and forgiving path.
DnJ
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
