I think you are doing well and are on top of the financials.
As for the links on the resource thread, we were only able to recapture some of the threads before a purging took place a few years ago. At the bottom of the thread is a listing of those threads that posters were able to recapture and we had the permission of the original poster to repost them for future use. After reading your thread this morning, I made a note on that thread to scroll to the bottom for the links that do work.
We like to remind posters that the stages and timelines are just a guide. Everyone is unique, i.e., childhood issues, personalities, etc., thus, they go through the crisis at their own speed....which is slow and can be disruptive to all.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
