When do I decide if it is time to implement boundaries? I feel like I cannot live like this anymore. He is having his cake and eating it too. He gets to come home to a wife who is kind, listens to him, makes dinner, etc. and carry on with another woman.
I am considering setting boundaries and continuing with GAL and 180. I could use some advice on exactly what to say. It is one thing to think it out, but actually doing it is hard. I truly wanted our marriage to work.
Here is what I am thinking (thanks to the many posts I have read):
"When you are involved with another woman while still married to me I feel disrespected. I want all contact to stop. If you continue to contact her and lie to me, I will consider all my options, including D."
There is more I want to add, but I am thinking short and to the point is best. He knows how much I love him and wanted this to work. He knows our relationship deserves respect. I guess there is no need for me to say it at this point.
D is the last thing that I want, but I can't sit back as my husband has a relationship with another woman. I deserve better. I deserve respect.
W 48 (me) H 52 D 27 S1 25 (currently living with us) S2 23
