PsySara, thank you for stopping in and reflecting. I remember reading a lot of (if not all of) your sitch when I came to the board last fall. You've been through SO much. You really must feel like a completely different person now.
Your step #1 is perfectly worded, and in my mind the most important of the 4. Thank you for framing it so beautifully. I must constantly remind myself that I do not want to be with someone who needs to be convinced of my value as a partner.
