I guess the main thing I'm wondering is how far to distance myself at this point in time? The last half of this week especially has been very different with her making small nice gestures and calling to talk to me about the furniture ordeal... Should I have been less sympathetic or even cut off the conversation entirely? Part of me says that would make her angrier, the other part says it would be a wake up call that I won't be there for that type of stuff anymore.
Also I'm conflicted about how to handle Mother's Day... I know not to get her anything emotionally driven... But a simple card with something small may be in order? I was emotionally unavailable and frankly bad about remembering holidays/getting gifts before the last minute for a long time... This could be a 180 OR it could be seen as a ploy to get her back. If I get her nothing does she still think I haven't changed?
I am a very logic-based person and over-process everything.
