Wife is having an affair and wants to separate

[joejoe1]

Vik,

She has made her decisions/choices, you are over thinking every decision you make in regards to your WW. I know/We know because we have been where you are. Slow down and stop making the decision that you think will benefit/make your WW less upset, and make the best, most logical decision. Stop deciding with her emotions and reactions in mind.

She decided to accept an apartment with her employment status up in the air. She knew the possible consequences making a choice like that. What would she do if Vik wasn't in the picture to deal with day-care? She would figure it out. Pay your fair share and let her live her life. Let her deal with the ups and the downs, the good and the bad on her end.
She calls you when things are going bad, does she call you when she is having the best days, I bet not. Stop saving her, and let her swim in the ocean she decided to dive into.

Keep moving forward