We are on a 2-3-3-2 schedule and it’s worked fairly well with the occasional blowup from her.
I’m going to nudge her along to move out and split finances. She’s talked about it for months and I feel this is contributing to her la la land. She has said getting her own place will “sting financially for a while.” I’m like “yeah, forever.”
I’ve continued to play the husband role through this. Ex,. I asked her for her W2 to do the taxes and she had to request another copy cause she “threw it away.” I’ve emotionally detached. I think it’s time to for me to detach from adult duties.
