So during the church service, W seemed moved. It was mostly music. I found an opportune time and placed my hand on her back and gently rubbed. Maybe 5 seconds. I figured better too short than over-stay. W didn't really respond either way. IMO, that was a positive.

Later I asked if the service had moved her. W's response was a quick yea, what about you? Quickly turning it back to me. IMO, this is probably a defense mechanism to avoid introspection.

Since then things are as usual. Friday W and I had dinner with D16 and her boyfriend. I took off afterward for the evening.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.