I think that sounds like a nice Easter. Your ex has been very respectful of your wishes around BF, I do not think there would be a surprise show up.

I also agree that when he does start showing up to your daughters Events, there is no need for a private sit down. Nothing to gain from it.

We all know my sitch and that we are all very cordial with each other, and make nice gestures. She is also his wife and my daughters step mother. She belongs at my my daughters events because her stepmother should be there supporting her. My daughter should never feel like she doesn’t. My other person situation probably takes the cake of awfulness about how it all went down too. I have to fAce the woman who was screwing my husband while I was pregnant with our daughter.

When you are detached enough, it’s always best for the kids to see you all be there for them cheering them on !