Try this one:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2484776

It still has the original timelines which HB then later discarded, as she learned they’re not really close to accurate. Each and MLCer will go through at their own pace.

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.